"goldilocks conditions"

at any moment of my life, especially in my childhood, if external conditions had arisen differently, would i grow into the same person ?

While our physical appearances largely rely on the information written in our DNA, our personalities are predominantly shaped through our experiences. Yet despite the efforts of our parents and teachers to control over this “experiencing process”, we become who we are mostly in consequence of random events and conditions that we confront in life.
Each random event can create a material impact on our identities. In other words, different events and sequences can yield to different personalities.

Randomly placed pixels of a photograph, iteratively reach to itself on this video,
very much alike the process of me becoming my ^self^.

goldilocks conditions : the exact amount of ingredients and sequence of events from the begining of the universe that enabled the life to exists. any kind of change in these conditions could have caused a different universe.